I stare into his eyes, while smiling on the outside and thinking two things within, “I love him. He loves me not.”
Imagine you walk into a room for the first time and you immediately notice a guy. To you, he looks good, he dressed well, he checked all the boxes in your imaginary list. Suddenly, you feel like you love him. Brilliant! So what do you do next?
Do you stand there and hope he magically notices you? What if he doesn’t? Or better yet, what if he does? Why not go to him and say something? Let him at least see you.
No! This doesn’t make you “easy to get”. It makes you “harder to forget”.
Now Imagine I am that guy. I saw you enter the room but I quickly looked away. I did not say a word because, just like you, I am afraid of rejections. At what point do we stop waiting for who to speak first?
At what point do we stop changing the rules and instead, start playing the same game?
Do you ever notice people or have friends that you know they both love each other but neither of them wants to make the first move. Even after you advised them separately?
It’s sad. It’s heartbreaking. It is Insane.
Take your own advice. Be confident. Stop waiting for the right time. Stop with the signs and the subtleties. Stop throwing petals and playing charades. Step up and discover. I am not asking you to confess your love. I am begging you to start the conversation.
He loves me! He loves me not!
I talked to him and at the very least, now I know!